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Using Art Therapy to Process Grief and Loss

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Divya Batra Masiwal
Art Psychotherapist, Counselor, Life Coach
April 1, 2024
9 min read

Using Art Therapy to Process Grief and Loss

Grief is one of the most profound human experiences. Whether you're mourning the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a career change, or even the loss of who you thought you'd be—grief deserves space, time, and gentle expression. Art therapy offers a unique way to honor and process these feelings.

Why Art for Grief?

Grief often exists beyond words. There are feelings, sensations, and memories that language cannot adequately capture. Art provides:

  • A safe container for overwhelming emotions
  • A way to express the inexpressible
  • A physical record of your journey through grief
  • Permission to feel without needing to explain
  • The Stages Aren't Linear

    You may have heard of the "five stages of grief," but in reality, grief isn't linear. It's messy, cyclical, and deeply personal. Some days you might feel acceptance; others, you're back to anger or denial. Art allows you to honor wherever you are without judgment.

    Art Exercises for Grief

    1. Grief Map

    Create a visual map of your grief journey.

    How to do it:

  • Use a large piece of paper
  • Mark where you started (the loss)
  • Draw the path your grief has taken
  • Include colors, symbols, words, or images that represent different emotions
  • Notice the terrain: Where are the mountains? The valleys? The rivers?
  • This exercise helps you see that grief is a journey, not a destination.

    2. Memory Box Collage

    Honor what was lost while keeping precious memories alive.

    How to do it:

  • Decorate a small box or create a collage
  • Include photos, drawings, words, or objects that represent your memories
  • Add colors and textures that remind you of the person or situation
  • This becomes a sacred space to hold what matters
  • 3. Letter Through Art

    Sometimes we need to say things we never got to say.

    How to do it:

  • Create an artwork "letter" to the person or situation you've lost
  • Use colors, symbols, and images instead of (or alongside) words
  • Express gratitude, anger, longing, forgiveness—whatever needs to emerge
  • You don't need to share this with anyone; it's for your healing
  • 4. Before and After

    Grief changes us. This exercise honors that transformation.

    How to do it:

  • Divide your paper in half
  • On one side, create an image of "before the loss"
  • On the other, create "after the loss"
  • Notice what's different, what's the same
  • Acknowledge that both versions of you are valid
  • 5. Release Ritual

    Art can be part of letting go when you're ready.

    How to do it:

  • Create an artwork that represents what you need to release
  • This might be anger, guilt, or even the hope that things could be different
  • When ready, you can tear it, burn it (safely), or bury it
  • This ritual marks a turning point in your grief journey
  • Honoring Your Pace

    There's no timeline for grief. You might work through these exercises over weeks, months, or years. You might return to the same exercise multiple times as your relationship with the loss evolves. This is all normal and healthy.

    When Grief Becomes Complicated

    Sometimes grief feels impossible to bear alone. If you're experiencing:

  • Prolonged inability to function in daily life
  • Persistent thoughts of self-harm
  • Complete emotional numbness
  • Inability to accept the loss after a long time
  • Please reach out to a therapist or counselor. Grief therapy, including art therapy, can provide the support you need to navigate this difficult journey.

    Finding Meaning

    Art therapy doesn't make grief disappear, but it can help you:

  • Process complex emotions
  • Honor your loss
  • Find meaning in your experience
  • Gradually integrate the loss into your life story
  • Grief is love with nowhere to go. Art gives that love a place to exist, to be witnessed, and to transform.

    — Divya Batra Masiwal, MA Clinical Psychology, Art Therapist & Psychotherapist

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    About Divya Batra Masiwal

    MA Clinical Psychology | Art Psychotherapist, Counselor, Life Coach

    Divya combines her background in Business Economics, Master's in Clinical Psychology, and 11+ years of dynamic experience at nonprofits to offer a unique approach to art therapy and psychotherapy. She's dedicated to bridging gaps in Indian mental health by making therapy accessible, culturally sensitive, and creative—honoring both evidence-based methods and the healing power of artistic expression.

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